Jessica Bukowinski sits across from me at my kitchen table. She’s been answering my questions for ten minutes. I am now on page five of my notes and I’m about to change pencils since I’ve worn down the point on my first one. I am thinking that she has found a magic way to channel the energy of the ankle-biter crowd with whom she loves spending her time.
“I am creating community for kids, giving moms a break so they can take care of other issues. It’s been my experience that when we try to take care of kids and work at the same time everybody gets shafted. Our employer doesn’t get what he (or she) needs, I don’t get what I need, and the kids don’t get what they need.”
“I never thought I wanted to be a child care provider. I was working in nonprofits after college, as I found a greater meaning to my work there than in corporate America. I started a family and was able to keep working with the help of a childcare cooperative in California.” Then she, her husband and baby moved to the east coast. She found that a non-profit salary did not allow for the cost of childcare and she was not able to recreate a childcare coop her area. After discovering a wonderful in-home child care provider, and returning to work in the profit sector, an idea for her own business began to form. “I would drop my kids off and I wanted to stay at the childcare center. I wanted to hang out with the kids and play with the gecko.”
She started a blog (www.activefamilyservices.com) in order to become “the resource for moms that I was looking for.” And she started a mom’s morning off program—four hours each week when parents can drop off their children and Jessica engages the children in an adventure or a project. She typically has five to six children in the program, plus two of her own. But how could you leave the house with six children, you might ask? How indeed! “I wear one kid, two sit in the stroller and the rest are my ‘wings”—right at my arms.” They head off for hikes, go to playgrounds, watch the fish at the Leesburg Pharmacy or find some other experience together.
As for projects, sometimes they melt ice with salt, play with rice and beans, or play with the toys and games Jessica provides in her home. Surely, you think, she must have a HUGE home to accommodate those active little ones! Think again. “We have a small space—a 1280 foot townhouse.” This has not stymied Jessica, only caused her to think more creatively. She loves multi-use furniture and converted an armoire to be used for imaginative play. She attached mirrors to the doors on one side, and a magnetic game on the other side. She took the door off of a bedroom closet and painted the inside purple. This became the dress up area. “I paid a geeky amount of attention to my space,” she smiles. In the play kitchen, for example, you will find NO junk food. “I come from an experiential angle—everything we surround our kids with affects them.” Jessica couldn’t see telling the children that she refused to feed them French fries and chips, and yet send them to play in a kitchen full of Twinkies and fried foods.
Jessica’s program is small, and currently has no need to be licensed. She and her husband have voluntarily undergone the state background check and obtained negative TB results. If she decides to seek state licensure her next step would be to voluntarily register with the state, which would mean an increase in paperwork for her clients, including that each child submit health forms from pediatricians. While voluntary registration would provide Jessica with free publicity about her child care programs, and would be a reassurance to new parents examining her programs, her current parents have told her they are comfortable with her program just as it is.
Goals for the future include-opening a playschool in May, which will meet two times a week on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9am to noon.
She also wants to increase the information on her blog regarding places and activities around the area for children, as well as child-related products that she finds particularly helpful. As she gains more readership of her blog she wants to sell advertising space to moms who run their own home-based businesses.
Her ultimate goal, however, is creating a business where children experience the outdoors with their parents on hikes and experiential walks. This type of business falls in line with Jessica’s desire to keep outdoor adventure a part of her world. Her previous careers include teaching sea kayaking, working at summer camps, and taking people with life-threatening illnesses into the wilderness. This idea ultimately marries her love of the environment with her joy of interacting with children and their families. “Right now my children, [ages two and four,] are with me all the time. As they get older it’ll be easier for me to run this type of business.” For now, Jessica heads out to test adventures with six children in formation. Let the adventures continue.